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At the airport, mother and daughter embraced, both aware that everything was about to change.<\/p>\n<p>After that day, Mary Lou never returned. Years passed\u2014one, then five, then twelve. The only contact was a yearly transfer of money, always with the same message: \u201cMom, take care of yourself. I\u2019m doing well.\u201d That word, \u201cwell,\u201d became Theresa\u2019s greatest worry. It felt distant, almost rehearsed, and left more questions than answers.They spoke on video only once. Mary Lou looked the same, but something in her expression had changed\u2014she seemed busy, distracted, far away. When asked why she didn\u2019t visit, she simply said, \u201cI\u2019m very busy.\u201d Despite the financial comfort the money provided, Theresa lived in quiet loneliness. Each Christmas, she prepared her daughter\u2019s favorite meal and set a place at the table that remained empty.After twelve years, she made a decision. 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